PERSONAL STORY: SANDRA EASTONI was at University when I was diagnosed with Endometriosis. I had a laproscopy done and the Dr. said I was full of endometrium tissue. Eventually it will block my tubes. At the age of 18, the Doctor said to me, " If there is anyway you can get pregnant now, I suggest you do, as the longer you wait the less likely you will have children, the other option is a hysterectomy." I was so dumbfounded. I went home and cried and cried. I have always wanted children, but not at age 18! Thinking about what he had said, I really considered getting pregnant. Wasn't it worth it? To have a little child in your arms that is such a part of you, than to go years without? When I came to my senses, I was resigned to adopt when the time came. I looked into different agencies and asked people who have adopted about their experiences. It still bothered me, but what could you do? I was married at 21. We didn't even think of birth control as I was resigned to the fact that afer 3 years, my tubes were probably blocked anyway. After 11 months I conceived. Boy! Were we surprised! It was the happiest moment ever! We had a beautiful baby girl 9 months later. Again, I find myself pregnant, and I fully realize what a blessing it is. I thank God everyday for that Doctor being wrong. I still have the desire to adopt, there are so many children in need. All they require is love and attention. I think that what will be will be. Again, the Doctors don't know everything, so don't put your faith in everything they say. Sandra Easton |